Late August I wrote down “a fall wedding” in my Dream Book. & on October 14th, 2016 that effing (REAL LIFE) happened.
I also wrote down “red wedding dress”, & that happened very accidentally 😜. I had two official (almost white) wedding dresses, & an after party black dress I bought at Target 🎯. The black dress ended up being too small 😒 (🐷🐷🐷), so I wore my little sis/jr bridesmaid’s little hottie red dress.
Dreams come true. & a lesson I learned was life will always be challenging even when you get exactly what you want.
I cannot put into words how thankful I am for My Annoying (now Hubz) & I’s wedding.
Even though our wedding was free… we still got a pay or quit notice, multiple late notices on all of our bills, & over $120 in over draft fees.
We were trippin, FOREAL. & all of October, I was relying on my PFD (permanent fund dividend) to come in soon after to cover everything, which was a very irresponsible & stupid idea (considering I recently found out I will not get it until probably the end of the year 😑).
Luckily, the rent (& late fee) has been paid 😸, the important bills were paid, & we are happy. & since we do not have wifi any more (👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼, I still owe them tho 😂) we have been spending more quality time with each other.
Everything works out, I believe. When I get stuck in my head worrying about my “bills, bills, bills”, I take a deep breathe and remember that even the United States America is in debt, but it is still glorious (I don’t know if I would include this election year, but that’s a whole other subject that I will never discuss 🙅🏻).
Money doesn’t make people; people make money. & people do not only earn money, but literally people designing & printing (making) money probably right now.
I’ve been trying to be more “minimalist” so this period of borke-ness is helping me see what’s really important to our family & throw out a lot of junk. & I think it’s teaching the Hubz the reality of how much we spend on eating out!
So from the ashes (broke-ness), the phoenix (us), will rise (get rich 😂😂😂).
Lesson learned for the month, if you enjoyed what you spent the money on, enjoy all the consequences thereafter (broke-ness in my case) & learn something for the time being.
When you accept what is, great crap happens!
Anywho, I want to be legit in the blogging business so… I may not post for a little while, I want to fix my page, & start creating images for my titles.
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Busy Mommy of Tuna